Welcome to Japan!: A Quick Guide to Culture, Courtesy, and Common Sense – Especially in Tokyo

Welcome to Japan!

A Quick Guide to Culture, Courtesy, and Common Sense – Especially in Tokyo

Whether you’re visiting for a short stay or planning a long-term move, Japan is a uniquely rich and rewarding destination— blending centuries-old tradition with cutting-edge modernity. Being a foreigner in Japan can come with intense culture-shock, and being overwhelmed by the need to stay constantly aware of unfamiliar norms is completely understandable. To help you settle in or get the most out of your visit, we’ve compiled a list of the most important things to keep in mind when trying to stay polite and courteous in Tokyo. 

General Guidelines

      • Be punctual: Time is respected. Arriving even five minutes late without notice can be considered rude.
      • Remove your shoes: Always take off shoes before entering someone’s home, traditional accommodations, or certain areas like fitting rooms and temples. If unsure whether shoes should be removed, just ask!
      • Bow: A slight bow is a customary greeting and a sign of respect.
      • Bring a gift when visiting someone’s home: Small omiyage (souvenirs or snacks) are appreciated.
      • No need to tip: Tipping is not customary and may even confuse or offend.
      • Pay attention to recycling rules: Trash separation is serious. Learn how to sort burnables, plastics, and recyclables.
      • Cash is still king: Many places accept cards, but smaller restaurants and vending machines may not.
      • Convenience stores (konbini) are your friend: Open 24/7, clean, and stocked with everything from food to ATMs.
      • Respect privacy and boundaries: Avoid physical contact like hugs or pats on the back unless you know someone well.
      • Follow rules—even unwritten ones: From escalator etiquette (stand on the left in Tokyo) to garbage sorting, Japan values orderliness.
      • Hierarchy matters: Respect for elders and superiors is embedded in daily interactions.
      • Group harmony (wa) is key: Avoid confrontation and express disagreement politely and indirectly.
      • Onsen and bath etiquette: Shower before entering communal baths. Tattoos may be frowned upon in some facilities, though more places are becoming tattoo-friendly.
      • Appearance counts: Dress modestly and neatly, especially in business or formal settings. Exposed legs are generally much more accepted than low-cut tops.

Behavior in Public Spaces

      • Public spaces are shared respectfully: Keep your voice down, avoid blocking walkways, and be mindful of personal space.
      • Don’t eat while walking: Finish food and drinks at or near the place of purchase unless you’re at a festival or designated area.
      • English signage is common: But don’t assume everyone speaks English fluently—speak clearly and use gestures when needed. Using a translating app or device is also common and acceptable when necessary. 
      • Privacy in photography: Ask before taking photos of people or private property—especially children and in temples/shrines.
      • Don’t blow your nose in public: Excuse yourself to a restroom or private space instead.
      • Tokyo is safe, but reserved: People are friendly but private—don’t take it personally if strangers aren’t chatty.
      • Use polite language: Saying “sumimasen” (excuse me) and “arigatou gozaimasu” (thank you) goes a long way.

Train Etiquette and Tips

        • Don’t speak loudly on public transport: Trains are quiet zones—keep conversations minimal and use headphones.
        • Line up patiently: Whether waiting for the train or ordering food, form and respect orderly queues.
        • Rush hour is intense: Avoid trains from 7:30–9:00 AM and 5:00–7:30 PM if possible. 
      • Don’t take up too much space: Keep your belongings close to you (on your lap when sitting) and try to take up minimal space by sitting politely.
      • Sleeping is acceptable: Sleeping on the train is perfectly acceptable as long as you’re not in others’ way— just don’t miss your stop!
        • Stay out of the way of others: When getting on the train, wait to the side of the doors and let passengers exit before you enter. On a packed train, if you are standing in front of the doors, get off and back on at stops to let others out. 
      • Don’t eat or drink: If avoidable, try not to eat or drink on the trains or platforms. 
      • Escalator etiquette: Stand on the left side, but if you are in a rush you can walk on the right. 

Helpful Japanese Phrases

      • Sumimasen – Excuse me / Sorry

      • Arigatou gozaimasu – Thank you

      • Eigo wa hanasemasu ka? – Do you speak English?

      • Kore wa ikura desu ka? – How much is this?

      • Doko desu ka? – Where is it?

      • Daijoubu – It’s okay / I’m fine

Final Note

Japan is welcoming and incredibly safe, but also built on social cues and mutual respect. There is a culture of collective responsibility and group harmony that is embedded in all aspects of everyday life. If you’re unsure, observe what locals do, and don’t be afraid to ask politely. A little effort to follow the culture here earns a lot of goodwill.

Welcome to Japan. Enjoy your stay—and when in doubt, smile!